
Restfulness. Freedom. Connection.
Attentive and informed therapy for couples and individuals in Boston
You’ve had an exhausting journey to this place.
Perhaps you are used to making it on your own, but there is so much you are asked to hold right now.
You may notice that in the strain in your relationships, in your unexpected emotional reactions, and in your body.

You can exhale into a path forward.
Together, we can listen deeply and move forward intentionally.
You can actually grow in steadiness, restfulness and freedom in your life and in your relationships.
I offer attentive, informed therapy to help you get there.
Hi, I’m Dr. Libby Ruffing.
I’m so glad you’re here. I bring training and experience coupled with a responsiveness that honors who you are and what you need most in this season. I hope you can get to know a bit about me through exploring this site, and feel free to set up a 15-minute phone call to talk through what has been going on and how I might be able to help.
What former clients have said
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“I want to say how lucky we are to have Libby Ruffing for a therapist. She is absolutely fantastic, honestly the best couples therapist we’ve ever had, and we’ve had a few over the 30 years we’ve been together!”
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"I have benefitted immensely from my sessions with Libby. I have experienced her as kind, accommodating, nurturing, challenging, creative, flexible, responsive, and intuitive. I have brought both personal and professional challenges to therapy, and Libby has been an invaluable resource and guide for all of it. Not only has she been a great therapist for me, I have felt empowered to do my own meaningful work in a way that I feel like I truly own. Grateful!"
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“When my wife & I were at loggerheads, feeling totally out-of-sync & could not understand each other at all, Libby did an amazing job of giving full empathy to one side, with broad & deep appreciation for that perspective, then pivoting & giving equally broad & deep empathy to the ‘other side.’ After that, we were better able to listen to each other.”
Here’s how I help
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Individual Therapy
For those who find themselves pushed by anxiety, heavy demands, or painful past experiences
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Couples Therapy
For those who struggle with disconnection or conflict in their relationships
